the woes of truth

I went to the strippers yesterday..my wife sensed it and she kept asking me where i had been... She encouraged me to tell the truth... "accepting is what matters" etc etc.. and when i finally gave in and told her, she said "accepting is not equal to not doing" ..... She hasnt spoken to me since then ( which is good in one way ), but i havent been getting my food and "dessert" either .. Now THAT sucks..