Always Blames me!!!

So we're military & I haven't been able to work the last 3 years due to his job assignment. I have over the years given up so much, used to get nails done, tan, hair done & nice wardrobe back in my single days. Now I am lucky to get a trim twice a year, pedicures once ever few years if that, color my own hair & 1 have 1 pair of jeans to wear & a lot of my shirts have holes in them & my husband complains about what I spend!!! Wtf am I soending money on besides groceries & toiletries now???