She is selfish

Ladies, I ask for you opinion. If your husband did any of the following things for you how would you respond: 1. Moved far way from his own family, to an area of the country he really was not fond of, so you could be near your family? 2. Having an oil pointing done of you w/ your kids for you as a gift? 3. Buying you an entire day at the spa? 4. For no reason, preparing a bubble bath, w/ chocolate, wine, candles & music, for you to relax (And leaving you alone to enjoy it)?